Welcome to this special preview of our article, “Teaching Kids to Be Cyber-Smart: Tips for National Cyber Security Awareness Month“ This sneak peek offers a glimpse into the wealth of insights and tips awaiting you in the full version.
October is National Cyber Security Awareness Month, and there’s no better time to teach your kids how to be cyber-smart! In today’s digital world, our kids are constantly online—whether it’s for school, socializing, or playing games. It’s up to us as parents and guardians to help them stay safe while they explore the internet. Thankfully, with a few easy steps, you can help your child become cyber-smart and have fun doing it. This guide is filled with practical tips to make it easy for you and your kids to navigate the digital world with confidence.
Start with the Basics: Online Safety 101
The internet is like a giant playground for kids—full of exciting opportunities to learn and have fun. But just like in real life, they need to follow some safety rules to keep themselves out of trouble. These rules are their online road signs, guiding them to make smart and safe choices in the digital world. By teaching your child these basics, you’re giving them the tools they need to safely explore all the internet has to offer. Here’s where to start:
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Keep Personal Information Private: It might seem harmless for kids to share details like their full name or where they go to school, but online, this kind of information can be misused. Teach your child that personal info is like a treasure chest—it should be kept safe and only shared with people they know and trust. If someone online asks for these details, the best rule is to never give them out.
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Use Strong Passwords: Passwords are like the keys to your child’s digital world, and just like you wouldn’t leave your front door unlocked, you don’t want weak passwords guarding their accounts. Make password creation fun by turning it into a game! Challenge your child to create a password that even you can’t guess. The trick? Use a mix of letters, numbers, and symbols—something like “ILovePizza2024!” It’s fun, memorable, and tough to crack.
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Think Before You Click: The internet is full of colorful buttons and flashy pop-ups, but not everything is as it appears. Clicking on the wrong link could lead to viruses, phishing scams, or accidentally giving away personal information. Teach your child to take a second before clicking anything unfamiliar. Encourage them to ask for your help if something doesn’t feel right. It’s always better to be safe and double-check!
Teach Cyberbullying Awareness
While the internet can be a fun and exciting place for kids to connect with friends, it also has its darker sides, such as cyberbullying. Just as we teach our kids to be kind and respectful in real life, it’s important that they carry those values online, too. As parents and guardians, we can provide them with the tools they need to navigate this tough issue with confidence and kindness.
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Recognize Cyberbullying:
The first step is helping your child understand what cyberbullying looks like. Whether it’s mean comments, nasty messages, or someone spreading rumors online, make sure your child knows that being hurtful online is never okay. Let them know that if they ever feel uncomfortable or hurt by something someone says or does online, they should come to you or another trusted adult right away. Emphasize that blocking or reporting the bully is not only okay but the right thing to do.
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Responding to Cyberbullying: 5 Essential Steps
If your child or someone they know is experiencing cyberbullying, it’s important to act calmly and thoughtfully. Here are five key steps to follow:
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Do Not Respond: Explain to your child that engaging with the bully can often escalate the situation. Bullies thrive on reactions, and by not responding, your child denies them the attention they seek.
- Don’t share with friends: Don’t share inappropriate or threatening messages. If you do, you may be held responsible for spreading hurtful or unlawful messages.
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Take a Screenshot: Make sure your child knows to preserve evidence of the bullying by taking screenshots of any harassing messages, posts, or interactions. These screenshots can be used later when reporting the incident.
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Show a Trusted Adult: Rather than sharing the situation with friends, which could escalate the issue, encourage your child to show the messages to a trusted adult, whether it’s you, a teacher, or a school counselor. This ensures they get the proper support and guidance.
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Report the Incident to the Platform: Many social media sites, games, and messaging apps have tools for reporting inappropriate behavior. Help your child understand how to use these reporting features to notify the platform of the bullying, which may result in the content being removed or the bully being blocked.
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Block the Bully: Encourage your child to block the person harassing them so they can’t send any more harmful messages or view their profile.
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By following these steps, your child can take decisive action to stop the bullying while protecting their mental well-being. Remind them that they don’t have to face this alone—trusted adults are there to help every step of the way.
Monitor Screen Time and Content
We all know that kids love their screens, whether it’s for playing games, watching videos, or chatting with friends. Screen time can be fun and educational, but too much of it can have negative effects on their health and well-being. Finding the right balance is key, and it doesn’t have to be a battle. With a few simple strategies, you can help your kids enjoy their time online without it taking over their lives.
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Set Time Limits: Kids might not always realize when they’ve had enough screen time, so it’s important to set clear limits. This doesn’t just mean cutting them off after a certain number of hours—it’s also about teaching them how to balance their time between online activities and real-world fun. Use this as a chance to talk to your kids about healthy habits, like taking breaks, playing outside, or spending time with family. Whether it’s organizing a family game night or encouraging them to pick up a book, showing them the value of offline activities can make screen limits feel less like a rule and more like part of their routine.
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Know What They’re Watching: The internet is a big place, and not everything on it is safe or appropriate for kids. As a parent, it’s important to stay in the loop about what websites, apps, and games your child is using. Set up parental controls to help filter out content that’s not suitable for their age, but don’t stop there—have regular check-ins with your child about what they’re watching or playing. Ask them about their favorite shows or games, and use it as an opportunity to talk about why some content might not be right for them. This approach helps build trust while keeping your child safe in the digital world.
- Install the OurPact app: OurPact is a comprehensive parental control app designed to help parents manage their children’s online activities. It allows parents to block apps, set screen time schedules, monitor online behavior through periodic screenshots, and filter web content. The app also includes a family locator feature, enabling parents to track their child’s location and set geofencing alerts. Compatible with both iOS and Android devices, OurPact provides flexible tools for ensuring safe and balanced screen use across multiple devices. To receive a two week trial and one month for free, sign up here.
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